I have to post this now because it underlines a situation that comes up in everything I do.
I'm talking about collaboration and situations where by you help someone simply because you find it interesting or natural. People then feel inclined to help you back - but you are not motivated by the hope of reciprocation and have no guarantee of it, nor any idea of comparative values of the actions.
I find this kind of social behavior to be normal.
On the other hand, modern society is dominated by an ideology of competition. Like the idea of game theory.These ideas stem from a concept that social life revolves around competition with payoffs.
This idea is so dissonant with actual behavior that people who live by it seem like automatons driven by aliens. The best example of this are networkers.
The difference between the theory and the practice is that in the real world society has a structure, a hierarchy which is imposed by people who value power. Networkers try to base their social interactions on climbing the ladder of society, seeing it as beneficial. They quickly become immersed in it and are unable to see how it eventually consumes all their interactions.
Continue reading Suck it, Nash.